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Shalini Mongia, MFT

ADHD
Therapy

in Pleasant Hill and Alamo, CA

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ADHD affects so much more than focus or organization—it shapes how you experience the world. For some, it can be overthinking to the point of overwhelm. For others, it’s the challenge of sitting still, staying on track, or racings thoughts and emotions that seem to flood in all at once. Hyperactivity can look like constant motion, an endless stream of ideas, or even internal restlessness that no one else sees.

Living with ADHD can also mean often feeling misunderstood by others or confused by second-guessing and self-doubts. Therapy creates a safe and judgment-free space to explore how you're impacted. Together, we find ways to handle frustrations, strengthen connections, and build on this actual superpower. Whether you’re managing ADHD for yourself or supporting a loved one, therapy helps you work through the struggles and feel better with practical strategies to create more balance in daily life and relationships.

What we help with:
  • Disorganization: creating systems to manage tasks, belongings, time

  • Irritability: learning emotional regulation and distress tolerance

  • Perfectionism: setting realistic goals and finding self-acceptance

  • Communication: improving listening skills, confidence, conflict style

  • Focus: learning attention regulation and manage distractions

  • Time Management: optimizing productivity, priorities and schedules

  • Avoidance: resolving underlying fears, making tasks manageable

  • Inattentiveness: new skills and changes to boost focus

  • Procrastination: addressing root causes, boosting motivation

  • Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria: managing insecurities or assumptions

  • Impulsivity: healthier decision-making to reduce hasty actions

  • Relationship Issues: repairing trust, misunderstandings, resentments

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society thrives when it values different
ways of thinking, perceiving, and problem-solving
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Our Preferred Evidence-Based Treatments

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is an empirically supported treatment that helps change distressing thought patterns that contribute to anxiety and depression. Through CBT, you'll learn to identify and challenge negative thoughts, reframe irrational beliefs, and replace them with healthier, more realistic perspectives. CBT also focuses on breaking patterns of self-doubt and worry by learning how to re-evaluate situations and adopt more constructive thinking. These tools empower you to make lasting changes in how you think and respond.

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness principles to help individuals manage emotions, navigate challenges, and improve relationships. It focuses on four key areas: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. By building these skills, DBT empowers individuals to replace destructive patterns with practical, lasting strategies that promote resilience, balance, and a greater sense of control in daily life.

  • TF-CBT helps by combining practical coping skills with gradual exposure to difficult memories. It starts by teaching relaxation techniques, emotional regulation, and ways to challenge unhelpful thoughts. Once a strong foundation is built, individuals slowly and safely process their trauma with the support of a therapist. This approach reduces fear and distress, strengthens personal resilience, and fosters healthier ways of thinking and relating to others.

  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) is a short-term, goal-oriented approach that emphasizes finding practical solutions. It focuses on what you want to achieve, guiding you to take clear steps toward your goals. By building on your strengths, SFBT encourages you to do more of what works and change what doesn't. This effective, time-efficient approach ensures rapid progress while fostering long-term results.

  • Motivational Interviewing (MI) is a proven, client-centered approach designed to help individuals overcome ambivalence and create lasting change. It focuses on exploring personal motivations and values, guiding clients to take actionable steps toward their goals. MI is highly effective in treating issues like addiction, unhealthy behaviors, and low motivation by strengthening confidence and commitment, empowering clients to drive their own positive transformations.

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a proven approach that that helps couples break negative cycles and strengthen emotional bonds. In therapy, partners identify patterns of conflict and learn techniques like emotional validation and replacing reactive behaviors with empathetic responses. EFT targets underlying emotional triggers, promoting healthier attachment while deepening intimacy. It’s particularly effective for couples facing disconnection, insecurity, and trust issues, leading to genuine understanding and lasting change. This therapy is effective for emotional withdrawal, fear of abandonment, and attachment wounds, creating stronger, more secure relationships.

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3189 Danville Blvd, Ste 250
Alamo, CA 94507

395 Taylor Blvd

Pleasant Hill, CA 94523

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ADHD affects so much more than focus or organization—it shapes how you experience the world. For some, it can be overthinking to the point of overwhelm. For others, it’s the challenge of sitting still, staying on track, or racings thoughts and emotions that seem to flood in all at once. Hyperactivity can look like constant motion, an endless stream of ideas, or even internal restlessness that no one else sees.

Living with ADHD can also mean often feeling misunderstood by others or confused by second-guessing and self-doubts. Therapy creates a safe and judgment-free space to explore how you're impacted. Together, we find ways to handle frustrations, strengthen connections, and build on this actual superpower. Whether you’re managing ADHD for yourself or supporting a loved one, therapy helps you work through the struggles and feel better with practical strategies to create more balance in daily life and relationships.

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